Sunday, June 21, 2009

Self assesement

Self Assessment of Sex Addicts Anonymous

1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
Yes_____ No_____
2. Have your desires driven you to have sex in places or with people you would not normally choose?
Yes_____ No_____
3. Do you feel that you need more variety or more extreme sexual activities to achieve the same level of excitement or relief?
Yes_____ No_____
4. Does your use of printed or Internet pornography occupy large amounts of time and/or jeopardize your significant relationships or employment?
Yes_____ No_____
5. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?
Yes_____ No_____
6. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
Yes_____ No_____
7. Have your sexual practices caused you legal problems? Could your sexual practices cause you legal problems?
Yes_____ No_____
8. Does your pursuit of sex conflict with your moral standards or interfere with your personal spiritual journey?
Yes_____ No_____
9. Do your sexual activities involve coercion, violence, or the threat of disease?
Yes_____ No_____
10. Has your sexual behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?
Yes_____ No_____
11. Does your preoccupation with sexual fantasies cause problems in any area of your life – even when you do not act out your fantasies?
Yes_____ No_____
12. Do you struggle with avoidance of sex when there is no identifiable cause? Does this obsession with sexual avoidance consume you mentally?
Yes_____ No_____

If you answered “Yes” to more than one of these questions, we encourage you to seek help:

* Call the ISO office,
* Use this- website to find a contact person in your local area,
* Read additional material about sex addiction, or
* Attend an SAA meeting to learn more about the twelve-step program and the Fellowship of SAA.

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