Saturday, April 16, 2011

我这个人,

缺点很多,

所以朋友很少(哈拉的不算)。。

朋友的定义是---

明明知道你的缺点还愿意和你交往的人。。

所以,

感激那些愿意花时间关心我的



谢谢你,你的一句,【我相信你】,让我泪流了。。。


zw
我这个人,

缺点很多,

所以朋友很少(哈拉的不算)。。

朋友的定义是---

明明知道你的缺点还愿意和你交往的人。。

所以,

感激那些愿意花时间关心我的



谢谢你,你的一句,【我相信你】,让我泪流了。。。


zw

Friday, April 15, 2011

5

Words of Affirmation

Quality Time

Receiving Gifts

Acts of Service

Physical Touch



zw

Monday, April 11, 2011

due dates

McDonald's....

Ba lap ba bap ba....McDonald's.....

i'm doing an assignment on McDonald's now... for 1 week... i've been facing the word McDonald's in google... books... articles etc...

guess i will be having McD phobia soon?? lol

assignments period for a short term...5 assignments and 1 final year project to accomplish.... STRENGTH come to papa zw ~ plz...

easter day is up next... preparation for drama has started.... have faith in god...



GBU..


zw

Friday, April 01, 2011

吶喊

我多麼想陪著你 
走過人山人海

當天空變灰白 
你的憂傷澎湃 
我多麼想走近你 
緊鎖的心海

我一直都在你身後等待 
等你有一天回過頭看我
我的笑送給你希望你快樂 
你的難過都給我
關於你的一切我都好好收藏著

我一直都在你身後等待 
等你有一天能感覺到我
就算我在你世界渺小像一顆塵埃 
我也會給你我所有的光和熱

我鼓起勇氣吶喊 
你要聽的見
我不許你再孤單 
要你擁抱我給的溫暖

zw

April

uni class timetable has changed..
my favourite lecturer is gone....
due to some internal issues with admin i guess..

now..i have a monday class on 8.30am...which is aweful...
but from another perspective, it is a good thing..
coz i'll be more focus on uni works and assignments then..

thanks god...
graduatin in june...if nothing big happened..
its time to rumble up for my further path...

to go to guangzhou....
or stay in malaysia?

this bother me...
from human thinking,
China will be good....
Malaysia has not much hope in the future in business world..
thanks to the system...zzzzz

6 assignments stacking up..
final year project presentations...
class test, quiz, supervisor meeting..

Life is busy...
but fun at the same time..
Time management plays a main thing.

Less entertainment..
Less meeting people..
More meeting Laptop
More meeting with words count and microsoft word.

Strength from God is the best..

All the best guys.


take care..

peace out


zw

hmm

朋友的关心,居然被怀疑

zw

Tuesday, March 01, 2011

before

Before u act, think.


Before u criticize, wait.


Before u pray,forgive.


Before u quit, try




zw

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

人之所以痛苦,在于追求错误的东西。
  2.如果你不给自己烦恼,别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心,你放不下。
  3.你永远要感谢给你逆境的众生。
  4.你永远要宽恕众生,不论他有多坏,甚至他伤害过你,你一定要放下,才能得到真正的快乐。
  5.当你快乐时,你要想这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时,你要想这痛苦也不是永恒的。
  6.今日的执著,会造成明日的后悔。
  7.你可以拥有爱,但不要执著,因为分离是必然的。
  8.不要浪费你的生命在你一定会后悔的地方上。
  9.你什么时候放下,什么时候就没有烦恼。
  10.每一种创伤,都是一种成熟。
  11.狂妄的人有救,自卑的人没有救,认识自己,降伏自己,改变自己,才能改变别人。
  12.你不要一直不满人家,你应该一直检讨自己才对。不满人家,是苦了你自己。
  13.一个人如果不能从内心去原谅别人,那他就永远不会心安理得。
  14.心中装满着自己的看法与想法的人,永远听不见别人的心声。
  15.毁灭人只要一句话,培植一个人却要千句话,请你多口下留情。
  16.根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁?如果有一条疯狗咬你一口,难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗?
  17.永远不要浪费你的一分一秒,去想任何你不喜欢的人。
  18.请你用慈悲心和温和的态度,把你的不满与委屈说出来,别人就容易接受。
  19.同样的瓶子,你为什么要装毒药呢?同样的心里,你为什么要充满着烦恼呢?
  20.得不到的东西,我们会一直以为他是美好的,那是因为你对他了解太少,没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天,你深入了解后,你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。
  21.活着一天,就是有福气,就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候,我发现有人却没有脚。
  22.多一分心力去注意别人,就少一分心力反省自己,你懂吗?
  23.憎恨别人对自己是一种很大的损失。
 24.每一个人都拥有生命,但并非每个人都懂得生命,乃至于珍惜生命。不了解生命的人,生命对他来说,是一种惩罚。
  25.情执是苦恼的原因,放下情执,你才能得到自在
  26.不要太肯定自己的看法,这样子比较少后悔。
  27.当你对自己诚实的时候,世界上没有人能够欺骗得了你。
  28.用伤害别人的手段来掩饰自己缺点的人,是可耻的。
  29.默默的关怀与祝福别人,那是一种无形的布施。
  30.不要刻意去猜测他人的想法,如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断,通常都会有错误的。
  31.要了解一个人,只需要看他的出发点与目的地是否相同,就可以知道他是否真心的。
  32.人生的真理,只是藏在平淡无味之中。
  33.不洗澡的人,硬擦香水是不会香的。名声与尊贵,是来自于真才实学的。有德自然香。
  34.时间总会过去的,让时间流走你的烦恼吧!
  35.你硬要把单纯的事情看得很严重,那样子你会很痛苦。
  36.永远扭曲别人善意的人,无药可救。
  37.说一句谎话,要编造十句谎话来弥补,何苦呢?
  38.白白的过一天,无所事事,就像犯了窃盗罪一样
  39.广结众缘,就是不要去伤害任何一个人。
  40.沉默是毁谤最好的答覆。
  41.对人恭敬,就是在庄严你自己。
  42.拥有一颗无私的爱心,便拥有了一切。
  43.来是偶然的,走是必然的。所以你必须,随缘不变,不变随缘。
  44.慈悲是你最好的武器。
  45.只要面对现实,你才能超越现实。
  46.良心是每一个人最公正的审判官,你骗得了别人,却永远骗不了你自己的良心。
  47.不懂得自爱的人,是没有能力去爱别人的。
  48.有时候我们要冷静问问自已,我们在追求什么?我们活着为了什么?
  49.不要因为小小的争执,远离了你至亲的好友,也不要因为小小的怨恨,忘记了别人的大恩。
  50.感谢上苍我所拥有的,感谢上苍我所没有的。
  51.凡是能站在别人的角度为他人着想,这个就是慈悲。
  52.说话不要有攻击性,不要有杀伤力,不夸已能,不扬人恶,自然能化敌为友。
  53.诚实的面对你内心的矛盾和污点,不要欺骗你自己。
  54.因果不曾亏欠过我们什么,所以请不要抱怨。
  55.大多数的人一辈子只做了三件事;自欺、欺人、被人欺。
  56.心是最大的骗子,别人能骗你一时,而它却会骗你一辈子
  57.只要自觉心安,东西南北都好。如有一人未度,切莫自己逃了。
  58.当你手中抓住一件东西不放时,你只能拥有这件东西,如果你肯放手,你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念,不肯放下,那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已
  59.如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天,那就是一种福气了。多少人在今天已经见不到明天的太阳,多少人在今天已经成了残废,多少人在今天已经失去了自由,多少人在今天已经家破人亡。
  60.你有你的生命观,我有我的生命观,我不干涉你。只要我能,我就感化你。如果不能,那我就认命。
  61.你希望掌握永恒,那你必须控制现在。
  62.恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中,不管他有多坏,有多恶。你愈骂他,你的心就被污染了,你要想,他就是你的善知识。
  63.别人可以违背因果,别人可以害我们,打我们,毁谤我们。可是我们不能因此而憎恨别人,为什么?我们一定要保有一颗完整的本性和一颗清净的心。
  64.如果一个人没有苦难的感受,就不容易对他人给予同情。你要学救苦救难的精神,就得先受苦受难。
  65.世界原本就不是属于你,因此你用不着抛弃,要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用,但非我所属。
  66.虽然我们不能改变周遭的世界,我们就只好改变自己,用慈悲心和智慧心来面对这一切。

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

seed

种子撒在沙石上,因为根不深,太阳出来,就被晒枯萎。就像心情突然很兴奋,突然又很沮丧的人。虽着环境的影响。有一天也会离开神。因为失去与神的关系,就少了喜乐。喜乐是由内而外流,快乐是由外至内的短暂反应。

Thursday, February 17, 2011

辛酸

有些成長來自承認
我終於掙脫怨與恨
年輕總習慣去爭論

要別人照我的劇本
滿身傷痕
才知道悲哀是互不信任
不在乎的眼神
內心悄悄破損

在午夜的時分
被一個夢給拆穿沒忘記那個人
我試著讓生活變得清淡
對幸福或寂寞順其自然

偶爾小小孤單
偶爾小小浪漫

不怕大喜大悲那麼難負擔
不想再背負太多期盼
對好奇或關心順其自然

只是那點不安
只是那種辛酸


zw

Monday, February 07, 2011

人生

1、人生有三样东西是无法隐瞒的:

咳嗽、贫穷和爱;你想隐瞒,却欲盖祢彰。

2、人生有三样东西是不该挥霍的;

身体、金钱和爱;你想挥霍,却得不偿失。

3、人生有三样东西是无法挽留的:

生命、时间和爱;你想挽留,却渐行渐远。

4、人生有三样东西是不该回忆的:

灾难、死亡和爱;你想回忆,却苦不堪言。

5、人生最悲哀的:并不是昨天失去的太多,

而是沉浸于昨天的悲哀之中。

6、人生最愚蠢的;并不是没有发现眼前的陷阱,

而是第二次又摔了进去。

7、人生最寂寞的;并不是想等的人还没有来,

而是这个人已从心里走了出去。

8、人生最卑鄙的;并不是点燃了一根导火索,

而是看到爆炸后的效果。

9、人生最肮赃的:并不是出卖了自己的肉体,

而是出卖了自己的灵魂。

10、人生最痛苦的;并不是没有得到所爱的人,

而是所爱的人一生没有得到幸福。

11、人生最幸福的;并不是终于得到了一束花,

而是永远被花包围着。

12、人生最快乐的;并不是别人给你带来快乐,

而是你给别人带来快乐。

13、人生最富有的:并不是拥有一座金山,

而是拥有一座金山买不到的东西。

14、人生最高尚的:并不是别人还记得你的好,

而是自己忘记了给别人的好处。

15、特别警惕三种人:

(1)官不大,特能办事的人。

(2)挣钱不多,特能花钱的人。

(3)不太熟,特能套词的人。

16、做好人,靠的是一颗善良的心。

做老好人,靠的是一张善变的脸。

17、不要说自己有多好,别人一般不会相信。

不要说自己有多坏,别人一般都会相信。

18、得意时,朋友认识了你。

落难时,你认识了朋友。

19、是非窝里;人用口、我用耳。

热闹场中;人向前、我退后。

Friday, January 21, 2011

walk

好好地走下去....

truly it is... walk and keep walking..


zw

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

buck up

one minute of patience brings Ten years of peace....

meaningful sentence....

had a great quality time spent with my spiritual bro n leader yesterday...

we were on our way to ipoh for a funeral....and we managed to discuss a lot.... and talked a lot of issues...

time flies... although both our age has a 10 years gap...but there is no gap between us...

thx god for everything...even the hard things and time He gave me......


now... it is really war time....

buck up n gize up....

READY....GET SET......GO.

zw

Tuesday, January 04, 2011

love

LOVE post by JMA

Love is true. Love is painful. Love is not easy. Love can be messy. Love is powerful. Love can change you. Love is difficult. Love is commitment. Love is what hate is not. Love learns. Love always listens. Love doesn’t hold onto the wrongs. Love overlooks the sin. Love looks into the heart. Love can be gained. Love can be lost. Love is possible. Love forgives, every time. Love doesn’t lie. Love is always worth a try. Love makes you laugh. Love makes you cry. Love hurts so bad. Love can’t be explained, but love can be felt. Love knows. Love is unconditional. Love accepts you just the way you are. Love protects, defends and fights to the end. Love prefers. Love will sacrifice all for the sake of another. Love is not afraid. Love is full of courage. Love begins with God, then it starts with you. Love takes time. Love doesn’t make sense sometimes. Love is beautiful. Love can be ugly. Love shows kindness. Love is not blind, love sees. Love is compassion. Love can be desperate. Love is discovered when you are broken. Love is in the little things. Love is caught in the most unseen moments. Love is deep, never shallow. Love lends a hand. Love feeds the hungry. Love doesn’t think of itself first, but always others. Love doesn’t demand it’s rights. Love trusts. Love lets go. Love doesn’t blame others. Love takes responsibility. Love doesn’t hold grudges. Love doesn’t compare. Love always believes. Love is risky. Love is worth taking the risk even if it means being hurt. Love is a lesson. Love is all we have. Love feels. Love is distant. Love is close. Love is in every heart. Love dreams. Love encourages. Love is crazy. Love makes you do crazy ridiculous things. Love sucks. Love is a drug. Love is everything. Love bleeds. Love was hung on a cross for all our sins. Love doesn’t see fault. Love gives you what you don’t deserve. Love hates. Love loves. Love is madness. Love is lonely sometimes. Love speaks. Love is silent. Love is loud. Love is discipline. Love is uncomfortable. Love is humble. Love enjoys. Love has fun. Love eats. Love sleeps. Love is an adventure. Love brings peace. Love doesn’t judge. Love embraces. Love gives big hugs. Love smiles. Love dances. Love is always down to help. Love is there for you when you need it the most. Love cares. Love is alive. Love is full of tears. Love makes the heart heavy, like right now. Love will heal with time. Love doesn’t need an answer every time. Love prays. Love hopes. Love never ever gives up. Love is repentant. Love is sorry. Love gets back up again. Love tries. Love pushes you to your limits. Love is scary. Love doesn’t work out always. Love can teach you a good lesson. Love is better than lust. Love gives everything it has. Love doesn’t hold back. Love is not cheap, but costly. Love is a choice. Love is not forced. Love doesn’t take advantage. Love respects. Love always seeks for the best interest of others. Love is giving up what you want, for the wants of another. Love is a promise unbroken. Love is your word. Love doesn’t play games. Love is serious. Love isn’t learned in a day, but learned in a lifetime. Love will make you get on your knees. Love waits. Love moves on. Love is hard. Love is generous. Love kills. Love brings life. Love doesn’t point the finger. Love looks within. Love always wins. Love grows. Love is example. Love is faithful. Love is understanding. Love is full of grace. Love is truth. Love gives roses. Love is finer than wine. Love is found in Paris. Love is lost in life. Love is creative & love creates. Love is a struggle. Love comes and love goes. Love gets mad. Love sometimes yells. Love is brutal. Love is affection. Love transforms. Love is sex done God’s way. Love is pure like a newborn baby. Love is childish. Love is mature. Love is being yourself. Love is loving yourself. Love can. Love is freedom. Love is radical. Love is rad. Love can lead to war. Love will defend the poor. Love is just. Love always does what is right. Love is coming clean. Love is new every morning. Love is there every night, you just have to look for it. Love is in the darkness. Love shines like the dawn. Love is warm. Love is cold too. Love repents. Love is willing to change. Love does what is necessary. Love doesn’t just talk, it walks. Love can feel like a jail cell. Love comes in different forms is expressed in different ways. Love is a language. Love serves. Love is quality time. Love is a gift. Love is heard. Love is physical, don’t be afraid to touch. Love plans. Love is also spontaneous. Love is a surprise. Love is wise. Love can be learned in every life experience good or bad. Love makes the heart happy. Love can’t be taken away, unless you let it. Love is something else. Love doesn’t focus on self. Love is God. Yes, God is love. Love yourself, then you can love others. Love is a golden rule for life. Love is life. Love is family. Love is true friends who love you not for what you can do, but for who you are. Love is what we were created for. Love is big. Love is not noticed. Love is stealth. Love is all around. Love is a song. Love is a presence. Love is worship. Love gives glory. Love always has a story to tell. Love looks like Jesus. Love doesn’t always feel good, but it is good. Love is fearless & faith-full. Love is drama haha. Love takes two. Love is infinite. Love forgets. Love is not full of itself. Love is not addicted, love is self controlled. Love hates evil. Love will not boast or brag. Love is the kindest person you will ever meet. Love is real. Love keeps it real. Love is truthful, it doesn’t beat around the bush. Love is in the eyes. Love can be painful to look at. Love makes priority. Love is not the shape of a heart, love is in the form of a cross. Love isn’t a job. Love isn’t a project. Love just is. Love is who we are, love is what we do, love is perfect even though we are not perfect. Love knows no excuses. Love doesn’t live a lie. Love is a raging fire that can’t be contained, neither explained. Love is worth it all, love gives it all, love is all I want, love is all I need. Love is everything to me. Love I’m still learning. Love I’m still failing. Love you force me to keep going, even when I mess up. Love messed me up. Love is simple & complicated all at the same time. Love is tiring. Love also energizes. Love is up. Love is down. Love makes your heart pound. Love is magical. Love is passionate. Love hurts like hell. Love can feel like heaven. Love makes mistakes. Love is failing, but learning to try again. Love is willing to suffer. Love is willing to lose it all to gain it all. Love is death. Love is resurrection. Love is to die for. Love I could keep going, but I will stop here. Just love.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.


zw

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

bed

headache gone..

flu strikes....

whole day sleeping at home....

rolling on the bed...waiting time to pass....



zw

Sunday, December 26, 2010

1225

Merry christmas~!

hehe...1225 christmas is officially over...

thx god....23,24,25th DEC 2010

23 dec: 1450 ppl... 200 ppl accepted christ..

24 dec: 1200 ppl...160 ppl accepted christ..

25 dec: 1600 ppl... accepted christ: To be confirmed..



all the hardworks and efforts.... give glory to god...


zw

Friday, December 17, 2010

5pm

Friday...after 5pm....

final yr 1st sem final exam officially finish~! woohoo~!

MERDEKA...

can truly focus on God's kingdom.... preparation for christmas and all...

Focus... and Achieve it..

God with me..


Although i am home alone... but God does always be by my side.. and i didnt feel lonely because i have the joy and love from ppl around me...

Mum, u will always pray for me daily and i can feel the power of ur prayer as god does presence in my life... i love u from the bottom of my heart.... although we have not much time to spend together weekly... but i truly appreciate everything u've done to our family...
Everythings can change except the fact that you are my mum, the woman that i love so much in my life... words cant escribe my feeling.. and all i want is God continue to bless u with joyful heart and healthy life to strike for God and do things u love... u have my support as i will always be at ur back.....




peace...

signing off, ZW

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

男人,女人

女孩应该懂的:

1、一个女人如果第一眼就让男人想到性,那么她是很失败的。

2、当你从床上下来那一刻,你在他心中就开始贬值了。如果你把一切都给了现在的男友,那么,除了老公这个称呼你还能留给你未来的丈夫?

3、一个女人的品位在于她身边站着一个怎样品位的男人。女人一生最成功的事情之一,便是选了一个对的男人。

4、一个男人爱你的时候,你往往会感动于细节,同样,一个男人不爱你了,你也可以从细节中来发现。

5、想了解一个男人的好坏,先去看他身边是一群怎样的朋友。

6、女人的友情来的快,去的也快。其实男女感情远没有你跟姐妹的感情可靠,所以,珍惜你们之间的友情吧。

7、把买化妆品的钱去买两本好书,漂亮的容颜固然可以让人眼前一亮,丰富的内涵却能让人经久不忘。

8、虚伪的男人总倾向于喜欢你的容貌,真正的男人总倾向于爱你的内心。

9、男人没有你想象的那样好,可以真爱,但不要深爱,在爱情里为自己留个退路,否则受伤时会措手不及。

10、不要相信男人的甜言蜜语,面对喜欢的女孩时,不认识字的男人也会变成一个诗人。而诗人本来就不生活在现实中。

11、去发现一个有潜力的男人,往往比去傍大款更切合实际。并且你会更有成就感。

12、随时预防遇到色狼。必要时向他胯下踢,用力程度自己把握。

13、这个世界上,最值得你爱的,除了父母,只有你自己。

14、爱情不是追来的,所以,永远不要认为被男孩追是理所当然的。但是,你对他的考验是必须的。

15、当一个清高的女孩遇到一个高傲的男孩时,总有一个人会卑微下来,但是如果可以, 不要把自己放得太低。

16、在爱情里,永远不要抱怨什么。

17、爱情,是需要用心经营的。恋爱也是一门艺术.

男孩应该懂的:

1、如果,你不能给她一个美好的未来,那么,请不要把她哄上床。

2、不能做到的,就不要承诺。男人,膝下有黄金,嘴里也有黄金,不要轻易答应什么,因为你可能会食言

3、把她的地位放在游戏之上,毕竟她是那个肯能会陪你一辈子的人,游戏只是消遣罢了。。

4、你可以为了父母去教训自己的爱人,但是不能为了爱人去背弃自己的父母。如果她对你父母一直不好,那么她可以离开了。

5、如果不是生在帝王富贵家,那么找女朋友,不要只看重她的长相,而要学会欣赏她的内涵。你找伴侣,不是在找情人,而应该是在找妻子。。

6、一个成功的男人身边,需要一个相对优秀的女人。而这种优秀,与她的容貌无关,与她的内涵相连。

7、哥们,如果不擅长讨女孩欢心,那就去讨自己的未来欢心吧。男人,不是来征服女人的,而是来征服世界的。

8、你一生担负的责任很多,但最重要的是四个,对自己的父母负责,对自己的未来负责,对自己的女人和感情负责,对这个世界负责。

9、不要总想着玩弄感情,小心它有天会玩弄了你。

10、物以类聚,人以群分,这句话对男人很贴切。跟上进的人交朋友,跟有人生品位的人交朋友,你会获益很多。

11、这个世界上,最值得你爱的,除了父母,还有自己的女人和哥们,然后才是你自己。

12、爱情不是追来的。如果你死皮赖脸追求了很久,她却无动于衷,那么哥们,放下吧。有时,咱男人的尊严比一个女人更重要。。



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Monday, December 13, 2010

lone vs love

LONE and LOVE is only an alphabet difference.. but it means a totally different world. 


我想我可以习惯一个人生活。

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